This centralizes the Makefile handling of -install_name and -rpath. It also
moves the cmake build to using @rpath. The reason being that libclang needs it,
and it works for everything else.
A followup patch will move clang to using this and then there will be a single
point to edit to support other systems.
git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@202499 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8